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How To Make Her MISS You

Being apart from the girl you like can be one of the hardest things you ever have to do. So how do you make sure the girl misses you while you're gone? All you have to do is leave her wanting to see more of you, make her enjoy the time you do spend together, and take steps to remind her of how much she likes you even when you're apart. If you make a real effort, then the saying “Out of sight, out of mind,” won't be true for you at all.
 

10 Ways To Get Your Girlfriend To Miss You

Here we are going to discuss a few techniques that you could use in order to get her to miss you. These don't always work, so make sure that the girl or woman that you will try these on doesn't already miss you. These should be used in extreme circumstances, when you think that the chemistry or the mystery is missing from your relationship. Please bear in mind that this could very easily backfire and end up blowing up in your face before you could even apologize or act all cool and aloof. She may already miss you or enjoy your company enough, so you may not need to do anything but be yourself. If you are convinced that she's no longer as interested and is drifting away from you, then try one of the following 10 techniques to peak her interest once again.

 
 

Rule # 1 - Don't Be So Needy

In the beginning, it may have been acknowledged as cute and sweet, but the more the relationship progresses, the more desperate you seem. Women are interesting like that, in that they want to feel that they are wanted, but not too much. It is imperative that she feels that you aren't clingy, and that you can just easily go a day without hearing her beautifully melodic voice. You have a life too, so don't forget about that. It's nice that you want to hear her or text her all the time, but don't! Let her need and want you like you need and want her. Although in the beginning you may have gone to sleep saying goodnight and waking up the next morning with a cute good morning text, stop this if you feel that it is no longer appreciated or reciprocated. Give her some space to breathe and realize that she enjoys that stuff from you. Women like to complain sometimes to the person they like or love, so let her complain about not getting those romantic texts in the morning or at night. Let her complain about you not calling anymore, and soon enough, she will be missing you more than you had ever missed her.

 

Rule # 2 - Don't Always Respond To Texts or Phone Calls

I know, what you might be thinking. Why would I not answer her phone call when she's calling me? It might be important or she's clearly missing me so why "play the game"? I'll tell you why you play the game. You play the game because everyone wants to have a little mystery in their lives. Sure you may feel like you absolutely know each other and that his its pros, but it's also nice to not know exactly what's going on. Let her mind wander off thinking what you might be doing. Let her notice that you aren't always there for her when she needs the attention. This will make her appreciate the attention when you are willing to give it to her. That way, there is equal give and take. She wants to talk to you so she must be willing to do it when you are able to, not just when she wants to. Every good relationship has to be built on equality and understanding. Although being there for her whenever she needs it may be great, you have to understand that you are also a strong individual that has other things to do.

 

Rule # 3 - Be Happy and Upbeat When You Are Together 

I understand that this is not as easy as it sounds, but remember the first couple of weeks you were talking to each other. There was a rhythm and a special vibe that you shared, which made it worth spending so much time talking to one another. Maybe it's not the same right now, and that's why you don't talk as much, so make the most of the time that you do talk. Be happy sharing this moment with her, hare as much as possible, and let her share anything she wants to. This is key because if something is bugging her, she is the priority here, not you. Definitely, avoid stirring up a fight with her. She needs to feel that her feelings are respected, so if she's not in the best of moods, don't tell her one of your happy stories. If she is in a good mood, you better not ruin that mood of with whatever sad story has been bugging you all day. If she wants to see you or call you when she's happy, that means she wants to share her joy with you, so make sure you are adding to her joy and not taking it away. A smile is like a key to a woman's heart.

 

Rule # 4 - Have Some "Guy" Time

Women love the attention they get from their men, but they appreciate it even more when they know that he can do other things with his time. This makes the time he does spend with her even more special. Now whether you can make this happen as often as once a week or not is up to you and your friends, but once every two or three weeks is enough to do the job. Make plans with your friends and make it a must that nobody brings their girlfriends. This will make your bond tighter with your friends, and will make your girlfriends happy that their men have lives without them as well. Be respectful and considerate about it though. Don't just text your girlfriend last minute telling her "oh I'm sorry babe, me and the boys are going to the strip club tonight, talk to you tomorrow". Be nice about it, give her the time she deserves before you even mention the boys. A few days in advance would be best but definitely, offer her your time before that if she needs it. Show her you still want to spend most of your time with her, even more so after you've been together for a while. Make up a nice little story about how your friend Mark just got a new job, and I haven't seen him in like a month so we decided to get together with the other guys and head over to David's bar for a few cold ones. Paint a picture so she understands who you will be with and what you will be doing. Usually, a woman will pretend to be a little distant after this, but this is part of the tease that she may attempt to play. She wants to see if you will be thinking about her when you are out. This is a tricky one, however. You can go with the "of course I will be thinking about you" route or the truthful "I'll think about you, but I really want to spend time with the boys tonight". If she isn't too clingy and has friends of her own, she will understand. If she doesn't, I recommend the first one. If she seems independent and enjoys her friends' company, you can go with the second one, or something that you can think of for yourself.

 

Rule # 5 - Don't Act Jealous 

Women tend to do this very often to test men's patience and see which ones are the super confident ones. In all truthfulness, all men and most likely all people are a little jealous and territorial around people that they are quite fond of. Women may know this as well, but they still like the illusion that their man is comfortable enough to know that even if 100 guys hit on his girl, she will still only have eyes for him. This is an illusion that guys don't have a problem with but you have to convey a confident attitude. This will show her that you are dominant and comfortable in your own skin. Just a reminder, this is also a test, in which 99% of men will fail at some point in their lives. She may not want you to be jealous when she's telling you stories about other guys, but every once in a blue moon she's going to want you to be a little jealous and territorial. I know, it's crazy but can you do? They want to see that if it came down to it, that you could protect her, so if someone is being indecent to her and she hasn't told you that she hates confrontations, don't be afraid to confront the guy who's trying to get your girl. The key is knowing what she likes. Some women like men that are willing to fight for them, so know your girl. Some hate confrontation of any type so that could be a reason to break it off with you. Listen to everything she says, because eventually it all becomes important!

 

Rule # 6 - Be Confident 

This seems obvious, right? Not! Some guys feel that once they start dating a girl, they can show their insecurities and emotions as well. Wrong! Unless a girl asks for that side of you, show her only a small part of that emotional side, and remember to do it rarely, not all the time! The truth of the matter is, women only claim to want the emotional nice guy that always buys her flowers before every date. These men only appear real in movies on the big screen, remember that, ladies! You have to be confident with who you are! Be willing to playfully argue with her if you disagree on a subject you feel strongly about and can support arguments in a respectful and knowledgeable manner. Most women wants a manly man that can occasionally be sweet and emotional only with her. Yes they often tend to think that only she can make you sweet and gentle. But essentially, most women want the strong guy that will grab her hand and bring her close to him so that he can kiss her without asking for permission.

 

Rule # 7 - Give Your Girlfriend Space 

Sometimes emotions and hormones can get in the way of a relationship. Sure you may have somehow messed things up but it's difficult to understand what a woman is thinking when it gets to be that time of the month. The smallest of things could be completely blown out of proportion and it can easily lead to a huge fight where one of you says "we should take a break". This is a bit extreme, of course, but it's happened even to the best of us in the strongest relationships. The key to situations like this is apologizing for whatever it is you did wrong, only once. Because women always remember the important things, so don't overdo it with the apologies. Give her the space she needs and the time she wants, and eventually when she cools down, she will want to talk to you. Do you know why she will want to talk to you? Because you were calm and confident, you didn't panic by the fact that she may want to break up with you. Now she knows that she needs and wants you, because you were patient with her, when other guys would push to be with her and want to know what's wrong.

 

Rule # 8 - Don't Always Agree With Your Girl 

When your girlfriend gets comfortable enough, she may start picking at little or even big things that you do wrong. Don't get defensive because she's only stating her opinion. Listen to her before you get into defensive mode and acknowledge what she's trying to say. Think about what you want to say before you say it and be as respectful as possible, but never seem angry. Be calm and collective, and tell her why you think that she is wrong. Speak when you argue and try your best not to yell at her as this will only make things worse. Be specific and show her that you know who you are and that you think you are doing it right. Don't let her think that she can just change you every time she thinks you're not doing something right.

 

Rule # 9 - Don't Be Afraid of the Words "Break Up" 

Depending on how your relationship is going, the words "break up" may or may not come out of her mouth. It may be because she is pressured by the relationship, or she wants to test you. Yes, again, women do enjoy testing their men, but try not to freak out. Show her that she can just as easily forget about you and that you could forget about her too. Just be careful of how you show that and make sure she understands how much you still care about her. Express it not with words, but with actions. If you've said too many "sweet" words to talk your way out of something that you've done, remember that this gets old, fast. If the word "break" comes up, remind her of all the moments that you've shared together. Memories should strengthen your thoughts of why you should be together and not break up. Regardless of whether she agrees or not, be respectful and once again, give her the space she may require. This does not mean that you ignore her and spend your days waiting by the phone or crying to your friends about it. It's never too late to grow up and show yourself that a woman's affection does not define you. Nor should any other person's to be honest, but right now we're talking about women.

 

Rule # 10 - Make Her Miss You 

If you're always there, how is she supposed to miss you? This is what I've been getting at throughout the whole article. Be confident with yourself, with being alone, with being out in the world without her. Show her that you are a man, that you know what you want, but that you can easily get by on your own. Show her that she's the one missing out, and not the other way around. Don't be needy or desperate, be the man she found charming enough to go out with. Be the guy she decided to actually try with, whilst there were other men also interested. There is something about you that she likes, and there's something about you that is worthy of a woman like her. I know that you know you are special, but let her see it, too. It's about the girl that you like and it's also about making her see that a "break up" isn't an option, because she will be missing out on the great guy you know you can be. She likes you, but for one reason or another, you showed her a side of you that isn't worth her time or energy. You need to show her again, that you are indeed the man that she was willing to be a girlfriend for, or maybe more...

 

Final Thought On How To Make Her Miss You 

Essentially, we're all here to find out what and who is right for us in this world. If you have the slightest idea that your relationship with this girl isn't a good fit, then it may not be the worst idea to let her go. If you find yourself in crazy fight after crazy fight with her, and constant problems arise, it may be a good idea to leave the negativity behind you. For the both of you. Sometimes it's just not meant to be, and it's fine. I guarantee you that there is someone out there for you, and she may not be perfect, but she may be perfect for you.

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